The news of three teenagers in Oaklyn being charged in an
attempted carjacking and murder plot reminded me of what Thoreau
said about people leading lives of quiet desperation.
Perhaps that was their state of mind. Some of their peers claim
that the teens were victims of bullying.
Because I am a teacher, such revelations do not surprise me. We
witness students who are bullied every day. Some victims react
immediately with violence; others let the anger build.
Preventing bullying is ideal. Toward that goal, many of the
educators in my school district, West Deptford, incorporate the
teaching of values in their lessons. The district also brings in
specialists who speak at assemblies to teach students to appreciate
diversity.
Administrators also have begun compiling statistics on bullying -
cases in which intervention occurred, and those in which
disciplinary action was not necessary.
My district, like others, is also training teachers to better
deal with bullying. Not only does the district pay professionals to
conduct surveys to identify the types of bullying in the high
school, but it also brings in experts on sensitivity training to
educate teachers who volunteered for the School Improvement Team.
Counselors also provide support groups for students who are victims
of bullying. They teach strategies to deal with bullies.
And the administration provides teens with the opportunity to
speak about bullying in town meetings in the high school library,
and in speak-out sessions led by the adviser of Students United for
Respect and Equality and the Pride and Awareness of All Cultures
Club.
I and some other teachers include lessons about bullying in the
curriculum. For instance, I ordered a free book titled Bullying
in Schools: What You Need to Know, by Paul Langan. When I teach
the unit, students read about specific cases of bullying, discuss
them, and write journal entries and skits about them.
In another class, a teacher leads students in role-playing
activities, which the school shows the student body via
closed-circuit television.
All of this is aimed at preventing bullying. Should these efforts
fall short, however, we must also be prepared for an act of violence
at school. Police have trained teachers and students in lock-down
and shelter-in-place procedures.
When bullying does occur, some teachers, including me, intervene.
Unfortunately, not all teachers do, and, sadly, some teachers bully
the students themselves. Addressing these issues immediately is
imperative.
Disciplinarians use several strategies in dealing with the
problem. Some appeal to a student's conscience, but if repeated
infractions occur, the in-house police officer will visit the
bully's home and discuss the issue with the parents.
If the bully's threats are physically carried out, legal action
is taken, of course.
Students, teachers and parents also identify teachers who bully,
and the administration deals with these issues immediately. In such
cases, it calls the teacher in for a conference, and the
administration expects an immediate change in the teacher's
behavior.
But the ultimate weapons in our arsenal against bullying are the
students. Some are brave enough to say to the bullies, "Knock it
off. Leave the kid alone." Others are kind enough to inform a
teacher, counselor, administrator or parent who can address the
issue.
The major problem for victims, which may very well have happened
with the Oaklyn teens, is that no one intervenes and their anger
escalates. It can result in a disaster.
School districts such as mine are doing a great deal to combat
bullying, but clearly we need to do more.
Because I witness bullying every day and was a victim of bullying
myself, I know that each occurrence is a tragedy. We must address
each instance.
The key to success in schools is for the administration to
continue to train teachers and students so that they have the
sensitivity and the courage to intervene.
Venise Grossmann is an English teacher at
West Deptford High School.